sábado, 15 de mayo de 2010

How to make yourself indispensable

The key to success is making you as useful as possible to others. Being useful to others requires knowing the needs of others, acting at fast as you can, solving others problems. This will help you not just to be indispensable to your guy and friends, but also in work and it is for sure that your name will be at the mouth of everyone.

Here are some tips that will help you to be indispensable:

With your friends you can have a nice meat you can prepare some snacks at your home and it’s very important to listen to your friends without interrupting nor being hurry. If they are in problems you can comfort them. Doing these your friends will know that you are the right person to go when they are in troubles or just to have a great conversation.

At your work you can ask them how they are doing, tell them for the good jobs they have done, talk with them about their achievements. If you act in this way for sure your colleagues will tell you about everything that happens to them and you will be the person most searched at the office.

And to be indispensable to your guy you need first to give him some space, you should understand that he needs some time with his friends and when him is with you it is essential to encourage at his ideas, even though them are crazy. Share fantastic experiences and try to make them unique.

If you have the time, if you have the desires, if you are kind, if you want to be a person that everyone admires you will follow these tips and became indispensable for everyone.

How to have a great weekend by yourself

Been alone is easy; enjoying takes more effort. So if you want to have a great weekend by yourself, you have to learn to enjoy been alone.

It sounds very difficult to have a good time alone: we associated enjoying being with friends or family. But there are a lot of things you can do when you are alone; this can be the weekend.

First of all you have to slow down your life; there is no work, no friends, no boyfriend, no responsibilities, NO SCHEDULE. So these two days, will be your lazy days, it won’t be a bad idea to wake up late morning, or if you are the kind of girl who like to awake up early it will be perfect to watch the sunrise. Taking a hot bath and some massages will be perfect to continue, and then you can prepare your favorite meal, but don’t just eat. Tasted it and appreciate its richness. While you do this you can listen to your favorite songs on very loud, and sing them. Cooking and playing music allows you to express yourself. At afternoon you can have a hot cup of coffee with that dessert you don’t eat because of the diet. Read a good romantic book lay on grass watching sunset will make you to wake up all that hidden feelings.

Watching a good movie and have a candle light dinner with a really good wine, will be the perfect way to end you day.

Enjoying your loneliness is essential to have a happy life. If you enjoy your own time, the time with others will be so much better, just try it.