sábado, 26 de junio de 2010

How to ask a guy to go out into a date

Asking a guy you like to go out requires self confidence, flirting, a nice smile and be prepare for anything.

First of all you have to understand that the answer he gives to you don’t mean he is or not into you. For this reason don’t be mad or sad in front of him if he says no, instead, give a smile and leave for another day.

But a good way to ask is the best way to start so first, make sure he doesn’t have a girlfriend. Then you have to decide if is better to be a group thing or just the two of you going out. This is very important because if it is a group thing he will feel less uncomfortable and is pretty sure he will say YES.

Then make sure when you ask him you look pretty, a good outfit will be perfect to help with the flirting you have to do while you are asking him.

Now for the asking part, act naturally in the same way he knows you, be calm like it is not a big deal. If he knows you like him a lot perhaps he will show no interest.

You don't want it to seem like a date yet. The perfect way is to casually bring it up like: “Hey, my friends and I are going out tonight you wanna come?” If you are very nervous to be near him alone will be better if you ask him to grab one of his friends and you get a couple of your girlfriends. In that case he will be very secure and will accept the “date”.

You see asking a guy to go out is easy, just trust in yourself and your abilities into flirting. But the most important don´t freak him out by seeming desperate. And remember don’t admit you love him when you ask him.

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